Why Go.
The world is only as big as what you know.
Once you’ve seen a new place, the map you remember in elementary school changes. Pink, orange, green or yellow – no longer just odd shapes – states and countries explode into paintings of life. Each one becomes a new realm in your mind’s eye.
After I came back from Costa Rica, my world doubled in size. My ideology exploded. Sure I have traveled before, but not to anywhere so vastly different from the United States.
When I mull over how I’ve spent my years, my travels are giant speed bumps on the road of my memory. From them I can conjure up so much detail and color, energy and emotion. I can recall distinctly how I felt while hiking in Noosa, Australia when ocean waves hit the cliff on which Kirk stood, the froth spaying his feet. In Abel Tasman, New Zealand, I reminisce about eating at a seaside restaurant with my parents, my dad laughing out loud at the ridiculously large bowl of green-lipped mussels served to us. On our gondola ride in Venice, Italy, I’ll never forget my grandmother asking the gondalier to serenade us through the canals – he did, and succeeded beautifully. In Costa Rica, I smile thinking of the happy seven and eight-year-old girls performing a dance routine to a Latin Top 40 song blaring from a boom box, striking charismatic poses at the finale. When journeying down memory lane, I shift down real slow, absorbing every sensation-filled detail.
Here in Chicago, there is a job that makes money, a space to live, a short drive to see family. Great public transportation and a beautiful lakeshore, more restaurants than cornstalks in Kansas, enough nightlife for the professional socialite. All in all, what has become for me, in the past year, a rather conventional lifestyle. Why go?
Convention is not a routine experience maker.
If there are the means for travel, why not leap at the chance? Let the world bloom as you run through it, each country on the map sprouting from one flat shape into an entire realm: scenery, language, music, crashing, unforgettable, human, experience.
What’s so great about Australia? Kangaroos, koalas and kabobs. The ocean, the reef, the surf. The Ozzies and their accents, the notion that the whole population is of criminal descent, the idea that it’s all “No worries, mate.”
I don’t plan on turning into an expat anytime soon, of course. But right now, I would love to ride a few waves, capture some great photos, meet some interesting people, and hopefully hit a few speed bumps along the way.










7 Comments
Thanks, Lauren for this great post – oddly enoug I’m located right in the center of that title map as I write – Denver, CO to be specific. Halfway on my drive to California. Thanks for reminding me why I do all of these crazy things in life, and why I’m right now heading so darn far away from home, family, and all that is familiar. I have to complete my U.S. map and capture that other coast. I’ll probably also be catching a wave or two while I’m there!
It was my pleasure!
And you crack me up. No sooner had I clicked “Publish” was there then a comment posted in response. Immediately I thought, this has to be a mistake, WordPress must have screwed up.
Nope, it sure was Julie, probably stopped at a some wifi cafe, Panera or maybe B&N on a break from her migration to Stanford! Haha, thanks so much (:
This turned out beautifully. Fourth paragraph down, change “why leave” to “why go”
and its icing on the cake.
Keep writing!
Hey Lauren, Haven’t talked to you in…probably years at this point. I started following your blog a while back when I somehow stumbled upon Kirk’s. I’m excited to hear all about your trip, sounds like you’re doing it right with full year visas and all. Are you guys keeping the place in Chicago or you pickin’ up and goin’? Either way, congrats! Keep writing!
Also – I posted this here because the “captcha” thing on your contact form doesn’t work…and Kirk’s blog is down completely. Hope all else is well!
p.s. I recognize the banner picture from El Avion in Manuel Antonio. I like it.
Dan!! Hey, ya it probably has been years, hasn’t it? Bizarre. How are you doing?!
Thanks for writing me… even if it wasn’t through that form. At first I read “captcha” and I thought, what the heck…? and then I remembered you were a coder and put two and two together that captcha is the letter/number code thing. Haha shows what I know – the contact form was a plugin
clearly.
So Kirk will be keeping the condo, but we will pretty much be picking everything up and going – we’re going to rent it out. I’m awfully excited for the trip…
Thought you would (;